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Love and Relationships

Whether it’s navigating the ups and downs of romantic love or building friendships that stand the test of time, relationships can be one of life’s greatest challenges. Arthur combines decades of research with actionable insights to help you understand the philosophy and science of love, build stronger, lasting bonds with your romantic partner, and find and nurture deep friendships. 

“The number one predictor of a man being successful is seeing his father loving his mother. That’s defined as dad stays home and is faithful to mom. That’s what you want. As a dad, you have one job: Love her.”

Arthur Brooks

“What are the right goals for work? It’s two fold. Number one: earn your success… Two,… service to others.”

Arthur Brooks

“When it comes to lasting romance, passion has nothing on friendship.”

Arthur Brooks

“Differences, not similarities, are what make romance great.”

Arthur Brooks

“Love is one of the deepest human experiences. To experience it fully, seek transcendence.”

Arthur Brooks

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Build the Life You Want

The Art and Science of Getting Happier

Co-authored with Oprah Winfrey

Arthur Brooks and Oprah Winfrey invite you to begin a journey toward greater happiness no matter how challenging your circumstances. Drawing on cutting-edge science and their years of helping people translate ideas into action, they show you how to improve your life right now instead of waiting for the outside world to change.  Bulk discounts available, for more information click here.

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“According to Brooks, contempt, particularly expressed through behaviors like eye-rolling, can severely damage relationships.”

Chris Williamson
Modern Wisdom

“[Brooks] told us that the most common query he gets from his students is about relationships, marriage, love, and happiness. He said that intimate relationships are one of the biggest levers each of us has when it comes to feeling happier.”

Dave Flynn
The Happy Pear Podcast

“As I follow the principles that Arthur presents, I am becoming happier. I’m actually having fun, too—a word that previously didn’t exist in my vocabulary.”

Oprah Winfrey
Global Media Leader

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The Goop podcast: Does love=happiness?

In this episode of The goop Podcast, Gwyneth Paltrow sits down with Arthur Brooks—a Harvard professor, bestselling author, and happiness expert—to explore the connection between romantic love, emotional well-being, and long-term happiness.

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The Dr. John Delony Show: Harvard Professor: The Real Reason Marriages Fall Apart

In this episode, John sits down with Harvard professor Arthur Brooks to discuss the brain chemistry of love, why dating apps don’t work, and how to overcome a victim mentality.

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How To Be Happy Even When Chemistry Fades - Arthur Brooks

Can romance and love be decoded? From falling in and out of love to finding “the one,” what does the science say about what makes someone a good partner, best friend, and lifelong companion?

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